Monday, July 18, 2016

Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes


Year of Yes: How to Dance It Out, Stand in the Sun, and Be Your Own Person by Shonda Rhimes

Review by Lauren

source: personal copy; all opinions are my own

Official SummaryWith three hit shows on television and three children at home, the uber-talented Shonda Rhimes had lots of good reasons to say NO when an unexpected invitation arrived. Hollywood party? No. Speaking engagement? No. Media appearances? No.

And there was the side-benefit of saying No for an introvert like Shonda: nothing new to fear.

Then Shonda’s sister laid down a challenge: just for one year, try to say YES to the unexpected invitations that come your way. Shonda reluctantly agreed―and the result was nothing short of transformative. In Year of Yes, Shonda Rhimes chronicles the powerful impact saying yes had on every aspect of her life―and how we can all change our lives with one little word. Yes.


Review: The only show I've ever watched by Shonda Rhimes is Grey's Anatomy, but that doesn't matter when it comes to this book. This is something that everyone should be reading, though I can see how it might work best if you're a woman like Shonda or even a working mom, again like Shonda. I'm a woman, yes, but I'm not a mom yet. Despite this, I loved this memoir. It's not a story of how Shonda became as successful as she is or how she grew up with all her siblings, etc. though these are things that are touched on. Instead, this is a story about a certain time in Shonda's life when she realizes that she says no to everything. She decides to set herself a challenge: for one year, say yes to every invitation that comes her way.

These invitations are university commencement speeches, going on Jimmy Kimmel Live!, starring in an episode of TV, and more. While we can't always relate to some of the things that Shonda says "yes" to, the spirit is the same for everyone. Do not let the fear of embarrassment or not enjoying yourself stop you from saying "no" to every offer that comes your way. Sure, it's not always wise to say "yes" to everything, but the more you do, the more you realize things about yourself. You can accomplish more in your life by saying yes. I loved the philosophy, because I know what it's like to be nervous in social situations or trying something new. Before I read this book, I had already been trying to do more and experience more, but this is definitely a great reminder that it's okay to put yourself out there sometimes.

While full of great information and an interesting look at how saying "yes" can benefit you, this is also a relatively short memoir. It's an easy one to read and savor, so check it out!

16 comments:

Melliane said...

I didn't even know her name but I watched the show as well. It looks interesting

Keertana said...

I adore HTGAWM and Scandal so I've been meaning to read this book for awhile and just haven't managed to, yet. Anyhow, I'm thrilled you enjoyed it and I absolutely agree about the power in saying "yes!" to events in life. Great review, dear!

Christy LoveOfBooks said...

I definitely know her shows, but don't really watch them. The whole yes thing it a great idea.

A Canadian Girl said...

I've never watched any of Shonda's shows but I know of her. I really like the message of this one ... you never how life can change when you say yes to different experiences!

Grace @ RebelMommyBookBlog said...

I really loved this one and its message. Glad you did too!

Karen Alderman said...

I've been meaning to read this. I'm not a mom either but I'm very introverted and this seems like a good book for a motivational push to try things.

Karen @For What It's Worth

cleemckenzie said...

I'm out of the loop on this one. I do enjoy memoir, however, so I'll put it down on that very long list.

Maja (The Nocturnal Library) said...

I haven't watched that much from her (Some Grey's and some Scandal), but I like her a great deal. I've seen some interviews and read some articles about her and she really seems to be a special sort of person. I'd really like this insight.

kimbacaffeinate said...

This sounds like an interesting quick read, although I have only recently mastered the art of saying No. LOL

Alise said...

I really like the message behind this one, I've seen the movie Yes Man and the concept kind of reminds me of this.

Midnight Cowgirl said...

I really liked this book!

The Bibliophile Babe said...

Sounds like a good message!

Kristin @ Addicted to HEA said...

This sounds absolutely fabulous!! Thanks for pointing out that this book isn't really about Shondra's career or her body of work. It's about a challenge she put on herself and how it changed her.

I wouldn't of thought about how it change how a person looks at themselves - that's a great point!!!! I may try and find time to check this non-fiction book out!!! Thanks :)

Joyous Reads said...

She's so inspiring. I wish I were into non-fiction.

Anne Marie DeSimone said...

YAY!! I have recently become WAY into Shondraland. I binged Scandal in the spring and am nearing the end of a Grey's first watch. I love the idea of saying Yes instead of No and I cannot wait to pick this one up.

Jennifer Humphries said...

I like the sound of this book. I am not a big TV watcher (scary huh), but she sounds like a wonderful person and I adore the whole premise of her book and story. Thanks for sharing!